Tuesday, July 24, 2012

AMERICA!

Tomorrow is the big day!  I am leaving this beautiful country to go back to my own country.  The emotions I'm feeling are confusing and make me kind of tired.  I have had one of the best summer's ever, but it's also been the hardest.  I have learned so much about myself, about Italy, the people here, family life in another culture, how hard English is, how hard Italian is, and lots about patience.  Those are just a few things that come to my mind...but I know that I will take away so much more than that.  I'm looking forward to my trip home and some time at home to just reflect on everything that I have gone through the last two and a half months.  I sit here, trying to think of everything, and it is so overwhelming.

It's been hard saying goodbye to my new friends and the people here.  Tonight I was playing one last football game with the boys and other neighborhood kids and I got a little emotional.  The kids here are so fun and quite funny.  I will miss how they always want me to play goalie because I am terrible at it (they like to see me try), and I will also miss their excitement when I make a goal (this did, in fact, happen often).  All of this to say that I will miss Italy a lot.  However, I miss my family even more and I cannot wait to see all of them!  The thought of getting to see them tomorrow makes me so happy!

Alas, I am very tired and I have a long day ahead of me...so that is all for tonight.  I'm sorry this is so short, but I know you all understand.  I will post a few pictures I've taken recently for you all!
Please pray for my journey tomorrow!  I will be heading out at 7am tomorrow, taking a train to Pisa Airport, then to London, Chicago, and then HOME! :)  Please pray for safety, sleep, and that I don't worry about it - everything will go smoothly!

Thank you so much for reading and praying!  It means so much to me!
Ciao!
Maddy
Feeding the fish at the park.

Gioele being silly.

Me and my friend Rachele at the Calidario.

Rachele's sister Veronica.

The beautiful Calidario!

Calidario.

Friday, July 13, 2012

Coming to a Close

Well friends, my time here is quickly coming to an end.  It's crazy how fast the time has gone, and yet how it feels like I've been here an eternity.  Funny how time does that...
But next week is my last full week here in Italy, I leave to head home on the 25th.  I will try and post one more time before I leave.

Well, things have been pretty busy around here - English lessons, card games, hours upon hours at the beach, dinner parties, etc.  It's been a great couple of weeks!  I taught the boys how to play the card game gin and they love it!  It's actually quite the challenge trying to win, those boys can play a mean game of cards.
For the most part we have been keeping in our routine during the week of lessons and cards in the morning, rest time after lunch, and then the beach from 4 until about 7 every day.  It's a great routine that I am truly loving! :)  It's officially the weekend now though, and those are always full of surprises!  I will only have one more weekend after this one, and that is so crazy!

I will give you a quick update on what I've been up to since my last post.  You pretty much know how my weekdays have been - as explained above.  Last weekend, however, was very fun!  Friday we didn't really do much, but Saturday we went to the beach all afternoon and then went to Cecina with another family for dinner.  It was so fun!  We ate at this really cool restaurant right off of the town center and had pizza.  We then went walking around the shops while eating some gelato.  There were these two guys playing jazz music on their guitars - very talented!  So, of course, we stopped and danced for a while.  It was so fun!  The boys were going crazy with flips and (attempted) break dancing - I laughed so hard!  We were most definitely the only ones dancing, but we made a party of it!  After more walking around and laughing, we headed home and to bed.  Something that still blows my mind is how late everything is here - we didn't eat until almost 10pm and so didn't end up heading home until after midnight.  I was stunned by how many little children were up and about that late!  I was so tired...I felt old!  :)

So on Sunday the family headed off on the boat - but I stayed home for some much needed alone time.  I slept in a little bit and then headed to my friend, Rachele's house.  She is younger than me, but is excellent at speaking English.  She is such a sweet girl and has lots of enthusiasm for English!  She called me on my phone just so she could speak English on the phone for the very first time, it was so funny!  Anyway, her wonderful mother made us a delicious lunch and we had great conversation (with Rachele and her dad translating everything to her sister and mother).  After lunch they showed me around their house and property (they have two apartments that they rent out - they were gorgeous!) and then we watched a movie (in English!).  It was the perfect afternoon - very restful.  We then headed to the Calidario to swim in the pool.  I am always in awe of how generous and welcoming these people are...they do so much to make me feel welcome.  After swimming and talking the WHOLE time (which was not something I'm used to), we ate dinner and then headed home.  I was only home long enough to shower and get ready and then Marianna picked me up to go out for the night.  It was a nice night - a bit warm though (I think I might die from heat stroke when I get back to Oklahoma!).  We just walked around San Vincenzo and talked.  It was a nice relaxing night.  Good weekend overall! :)

I wanted to share something really exciting with you all!  I'm not sure if I have shared this, but for the last month I've been doing an online study of Hebrews through my church in Stillwater (Countryside).  It's been so so cool to really dive deep into scripture, study it, and figure out what it means.  Studying chapters 5 and 6 have been really neat - about how we need to strive towards maturity in our faith.  He said some signs that we are maturing are that we are able to discern (i.e. know the difference between right and wrong), able to take in solid food (ready for deeper knowledge of the Bible), as well as have the ability and willingness to teach others/show them the Truth.  I definitely agree that all of these things are signs of maturity - but the one that stuck out to me was sticking with "solid food".  I love that analogy - and not just because NLR had awesome green shirts with Solid Food written on the front.  The writer is telling these people (the Jewish believers who had turned away from Jesus and back to the Mosaic Law) that they have been taking backward steps in their faith.  He says that since they are not growing and learning more about the Lord, they are going backwards - that they now need to review the elementary truths.  Honestly, I was pretty judgmental of these people at first...how could they go back to what they knew after they had known Jesus?  But then I realized that we do the same thing all the time!  By not growing in our faith - we are also taking backward steps.  If I don't continue to get into His Word regularly and seek out His Truth in my life, I will start to go backwards too.  And since these people had not been learning and listening to the Lord, they had to learn the basics all over again...just like we have to relearn how to spend time with Him, how to read the Bible, how to pray, etc. after a "hiatus" from our faith.  I don't know about you guys - but I no longer want to have to relearn these things.  I want to go on to solid food and really grow and learn more about the Bible and the truths everywhere in that precious gift.  I am so excited!  The Lord has blessed me with a great desire to read His Word and really delve deep into the Truth that sets us all free!  It has really blown my mind how much knowledge and information is in the Bible, sometimes it can be overwhelming.  But I know that the Lord is with me and will help me through it all.  I urge all of you to not take backward steps - but to keep enjoying solid food!  Sorry this is so long - it's just something I've been thinking about a lot! :)

I also wanted to thank all of you for your prayers and support throughout this summer.  It's meant so much to me - I've loved all of the emails, comments, etc.  The Lord has blessed me so much with the most wonderful support system I could ask for.  No pictures or videos this time - but maybe next time!  Love you all!

Maddy

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

First 4th of July Abroad!

Well, it's weird not being in America on this fine Independence Day.  I've always done the whole family and fireworks thing...usually at New Life Ranch with all of the wonderful staff and family campers, which makes it even more fun.  But this year - alas - I am on my own in celebrating the birthday of my country.  I celebrated by singing God Bless America all day long....and that's about it!  I didn't even really have anything American to wear - the old red, white, and blue I mean.  I tried to plan my wardrobe to not look so American while I was over here (did NOT work out well - they are way too stylish over here), so I had to settle with annoying the boys with my own renditions of every USA song I know.  It's been great.

Okay, I will be honest with you all - I've had a really tough week.  The main thing that has been so hard on me is learning how to handle behavior problems with the boys.  I will say it again - the culture is so very different here.  What is acceptable here is different than what is acceptable back home.  It's just been really hard for me to deal with some of these differences in how things and situations are handled.  I've been getting so frustrated lately and I hate that.  I don't want to be mad or frustrated - especially at the boys.  Please continue to pray for me and that the Lord would continue to bless me with patience and endurance to finish strong.  


I've also been wanting to go home so badly - which has made everything a tad bit harder.  I've never really been away from home for more than a month before - and I'm coming up on almost two months since I've seen my family.  I miss them desperately.  I think it just really hit me last week how long I've been gone and how much I take them for granted sometimes.  My family is so so great, you guys.  I am seriously the luckiest girl in the whole world!  My have the best parents, the coolest siblings, the most loving grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc.  I just feel so blessed.  


Okay, so this will be somewhat brief - I am pretty exhausted tonight!  But this past weekend was another grand adventure!  I was able to go out with the family and we all slept on the boat!  It was so so much fun.  We went out to an island called Capraia (NOT Capri - google it!) on Saturday and had dinner on the island. It was so fun - we got pizza and then hung out at this little bar and Gioele and I danced the night away!  Sleeping on the boat was something I was a tad nervous about - but it was not bad at all!  Waking up on the sea was one of the coolest things ever.  It was absolutely gorgeous.  We then went to a beautiful little area off the island to swim and stayed there all day and had lunch on the boat.  I will add pictures below!  It was just a beautiful place - very special day!  The last few days we've just been going to the beach and Calidario to swim in the natural hot springs.


It's been a hard week - but today was a good day.  I am holding on to that.  Plus, I am going home in three weeks from today!  Can you believe it?!  Time has definitely flown by this summer, but I am starting to feel ready for school again.  I can't wait to get back!  Anyway, I think that is all for now, I am ready for bed.  But here are some pictures of our trip to Capraia!  Enjoy!
Buono notte!
Maddy

The port where we stayed the night.

My boys!

Where we spent our day.

Swimming with Gio!

The rocks were huge!

Try to find the family.


He's precious

He saw one jellyfish and never left the boat again. haha

Me and the boys

The family!

The islands around here remind me of Jurassic Park!